On May 24, will be our 5th Wedding Anniversary. Through the years, it has been a learning process. I truly believe that LOVE is what keep us together. No matter what dark clouds that comes our way, we know, that tomorrow is a brighter day. In a relationship, one should stand firm when the other is down. Always be there for each other.
Love is work, lots of work. It is a job of two people in a relationship. There is no in between, nobody is the boss, we are partners, we are one! When a storm is coming, be prepared and cling to one another. When life is to your advantage, celebrate and rejoice.
Five years ago, I remembered during our pre-marital councelling meeting, the Pastor that officiated our wedding once told us to put GOD first in our relationship. The spiritual value plays a major role in every marriage. I believe when a family that PRAYS together, STAYS forever. Second is Money. He told us to never argue about money. It is one of the evil root of every broken families in the world because you are easily get blinded by it, whether you have lots or less money, it doesnt matter. Lastly, sexual relationship should not be taken for granted. Its not just about physical but the emotional aspect of it. Be affectionate and sensual. Be creative and giving. Romance each other, spend time together, and dont forget to go out on a date at least once a week. Date is not just about the bedroom. Go out, go watch a movie, stroll in the park, arrange a candle dinner in your basement, or anything that is so special.
It is very important to communicate. Dont be afraid to tell what you feel inside, tell your likes and dislikes with each other and learn from it. Your own flaws will help build a stronger relationship.
Some says, Love is sacrifice. I completely disagree. Love is an understanding and accepting. What is love when deep inside you is sacrificing and hurting. Supposedly, love is happiness. Be happy and content with what you have. Trully, you can never change a person, and don't try to change that person because true love conquers everything. If you want to mold somebody into someone you want him to be, then, he's not the one for you. True love understand each others feelings and compensate each others needs. Surrender yourself and don't expect something in return. Love finds its own way. When you're hurting, love heals itself. When you love, you are loved.
Let me share you my favorite Bible verse and our Wedding scriptural reading:
"Love is patient, love is kind, never jealous, boastful proud or rude. love is not selfish or quick tempered. love doesnt keep a record of wrongs that others do. Love rejoices in the truth but not in evil. Love is always supportive, loyal, and trusting. Love bears all things, endures all things. love never fails. So faith, hope, love, abide these three; but the greatest of these is LOVE." Corinthians 13:4-8,13
to be continued....:)
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1 comments:
nice one...very well said...:)
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